I really can't believe my baby ( I know he's 10) is growing up, I'm also pregnant with my second child due in December. Is there any good books we could look at together to talk about it, do I got my partner of 6 years to have a little chat with him ? Me and his dad aren't together anymore and he can't talk to his dad about anything which I think is very sad I always seem to be the middle man and have to tell him things about our son. Hello really not sure how to handle this at all, my son has had an infection and really bad swelling in his penis for nearly two weeks, had to go to a&e because of it and doctors, ended up back there yesterday because he's now got thrush caused by the antibiotics last night after his bath and him applying the cream I went back into his bedroom to check on him and walked right in on him masturbating I was shocked and he cried and thought I was going to shout at him, I asked him how long he's being doing it and he said two weeks, me in shock said its no wonder your willy is sore at the moment which I now know wasn't the right thing to say to him.